I found a gold mine. Seriously, I was on a plane when I came
across it. So I dug in. It was so refreshing. No, I didn’t strike rich, at
least not literally. Figuratively though, I’m more wealthy than a millionaire. I love 1st Peter. And 2nd
Peter, but as I studied 1st Peter on the plane home from visiting
Washington state, I just kept finding more things that got my mind thinking…. Thinking
how sad it is that not many people like what the Bible has to say. I agree, the
Bible is controversial, it goes against pretty much everything the culture tell
us is right. It’s uncomfortable, but it’s a fountain of wisdom that just keeps
giving. I have to do things that I don’t want to, because I understand that I
don't understand what is always good for me, but I know the only God who does.
So, 1st Peter- I was getting lost in chapter 2
and 3. (I’m going to try to explain why I loved it so much, emphasis on the try part.) The end of chapter 1 talks about how great it is that we were saved by
the grace of God. Jump into chapter 2, since that is such a great thing, this
is what we should do- put away your former ways of living and change your
worldview to a Biblical and Godly one. Crave the Word of God, knowing that He
and His ways were rejected by men. We were made by Him and for Him, to proclaim
Him.
Christians, if truly following the Word, are going to stick
out like a sore thumb….. I’m now sitting here thinking about that saying. Seriously,
that sounds as lame as the actual word ‘lame’. Maybe I should have said, ‘sticks
out like broken bone’. Anddddd now I’m sorry for that mental picture.
People are watching Christians, waiting for them to mess up
and when they do, to kick them while they’re down. As the world watches, we are
told to submit. It’s a pretty common word and to us it seems to come across as
the worst thing in the world. It’s not easy, although, truthfully nothing
beneficial is. “What?! You want me to place myself under someone else’s
authority? That can’t be right.” Yep, you read that right. Submit to the king
and governors. So that by doing right you may silence the ignorance of foolish
men. We are supposed to listen to the rules of those who are over you in power.
Shocker. No, not really, but it is easier said than done. Of course, if it goes
against the Word of God, the Word of God will always trump, but for those other
rules and laws that seem unimportant to you, follow them anyway. Why? Because
the God of the universe commanded you to and I’m 1,000 percent sure that He
knows what He is doing. It gets more difficult, later on in the passage it says
honor the king. Ouch, that’s worse. I have to submit to and honor a man that I
don’t even like as a president to our country? Yikes. It’s life. In comes verse
18, “servants, be submissive to your masters with all respect, not only to
those who are good and gentle, but also to those who are unreasonable.” Need I
say more?
I’ve been called for this purpose, since Christ also
suffered for me. He left me an example to follow, while being beaten and mocked
and laughed at, He entrusted Himself to the Lord. You know why? He went through
that that we might die to ourselves and live to righteousness.
These commands seem like a foreign language to the watching
world. But the next part seems insulting to the women of this day and age.
3:1- IN THE SAME WAY, you wives, be submissive to your own
husbands so that even if any of them are disobedient to the word, they may be
won without a word by the behavior of their wives.
I don’t think it could have been spoken any plainer. Jesus
was submissive to God and let the outcome up to Him, wives are supposed to do
the same thing! Women, your submission is supposed to be a testimony to others!
In this verse it is referencing a marriage when both husband and wife, at one
time, were unbelievers and the woman was converted. The passage goes on to say
to wives that their husbands should see that their actions are not merely
external, which is sometimes the most obvious way, but also that their heart
has changed.
3:7- You husbands IN THE SAME WAY, live with your wives in
an understanding way, as with someone weaker, since she is a woman; and show
her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers will not
be hindered.
I thought that statement would bother me, “as with someone
weaker”. How have we looked at that as a bad thing?! Why do we feel that, as
women, we need to be as great as or greater than men? We have different roles,
it’s incomparable. I read a Matt Walsh post a while back and thought it
explained things perfectly how I had imagined it, although I might have been
less harsh about it. This was from that post:
You know, maybe it would
be wise to raise our daughters to have an appreciation for manhood. Maybe we
should stop filling her head with this “you can do everything a man can do”
garbage. Maybe she isn’t benefitted by this lie. Maybe it will only make her bitter
and arrogant. Maybe it will cause her to see men as worthless, with the only
characteristics particular to them being negative stereotypes about leaving the
toilet seat up and drinking too much beer.
Maybe we should tell her
that it is men who fight the wars, and men who are best equipped for the task.
This is not because of “discrimination” or “glass ceilings,” it’s because men
are men, and women are not. Women need men. GASP. What a scandalous notion. But
I say it again: women need men.
In some ways, being “treated as someone weaker” is a
beautiful picture in my mind. It means that men shouldn’t treat us like they do
their manly-men-friends. Men are supposed to treat us like we’re special and
valuable. But instead, we can’t embrace it because we are too busy getting
caught up by the fact that we aren’t on the same level as men. We aren't in charge. Guess what, dear? You’re gonna have to get over it and accept that that’s
not your job. For me, I don’t want to be a man, that’s too much responsibility.
I want to be able to learn and practice submission and properly portray it as
an example of Christ’s submission to His Father.
I’m starting. I’m starting to get over it. I grew up somehow
convincing myself that it wasn’t okay to be treated as someone weaker. I needed
to be as good at everything as my brothers. I had to play with GI Joe’s cause
Barbie’s were too girly. Never cry! Crying is a sign of weakness, I wasn’t weak…
or so I tried to convince myself. I wanted their respect, but I went about it
in the wrong way. Then, as I grew and matured, I started to embrace it all, all
the differences. I’m still the same girl who doesn’t like to be prissy or one
who chooses to be proper all the time, but I was a bit extreme. Now, I’m learning
to embrace it. It’s okay that I’m not as strong as men and that I can’t be the
leader of a household.
In fact, I love that we are different. Women are confusing
and I apologize to any man that tries to understand us, cause I don’t always
understand. Culture has brainwashed women into thinking that they aren’t good
enough if they aren’t on the same level as men and in leadership positions.
That’s the curse. It’s not a new thing, in fact, it came into the world when
sin did.
Submitting to someone is an unnatural thing, especially since
it has been engrained in us to be in a competition with the men in our lives. As
women, it’s part of our testimony, whether to an unbelieving husband or a
believing husband. No, I’m not married, so I can’t really give advice to people
who are married, but I can shine a light on Biblical truth. It does look
different for me at this stage in my life, I don’t have a husband to submit to,
but that doesn’t mean I get out of practicing submission. I still have people
over me- my parent, my supervisors and bosses, the church, etc. I’m not saying
it will be easy, but I’m saying it will be worth it.
Gold mine. :)
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